Delicious Food that I Never Tasted

I had such a special intimate moment with my husband this morning (well duh, not just this morning to be clear, always...). Shhhhhhhhhh! It's a secret haha. It's too good that I can best compare it to a delicious food that I never tasted before. Yes, you read it right! I made it sure too that my husband knows that. That is exactly what I told him after that moment, hehe.

It pays to be patient and marry a healthy husband. Even though he is 17 years my senior yet I cannot complain anything about him when it comes to sex life because, I am very satisfied of him. He just had his health assessment done at the nearby hospital and the results came out perfectly as in perfectly healthy!

When a man is healthy even in his  late 50's, I guarantee, he is still capable of making his wife happy and perform long minutes of crimes..haha good crimes!

We Gonna Miss our Dada

Five weeks is a long separation between us and dada. But we have to go without him. If there weren't too much stuff to do in the house and we are not that tight up with credit card payments, there is a greater chance he could come with us. Someday, somehow he can go back to the Philippines and possibly see his brother? I believe they haven't seen each other for decades although they occasionally write each other.

Anyhow, I will just call or text my husband as often as I can and let the girls hear him on the phone. With the help of this ever evolving technology, everything seems within reach and easy. Everything is possible.

Off For 2 Weeks Now

In my previous posts I was talking about my husband feeling sick in half of his face to the back of his head due to shingles. There is a website for this in order to understand deeply about this virus on www.shinglesinfo.com. Anyway, he's been off for two weeks now yet still feeling the pain in that part of his body. Should I be happy? Yes, part of me is happy because he's been helping me watching the girls while I want to be alone or on the computer. He also watches Megan while I take Jadyn to school. Today he told me that he is taking another week off work, this time it is sick leave for the same reason. Whatever you want to do, dear!

Be Open-Minded

I always love it when that "little voice" inside tries to talk to me for it lightens up my stressed mind and somehow give me consolidation that I should be open-minded to what other people's ideas, hear them but never ever leave my back from my husband nor doubt him of what he does.

Friends come and go in our life but a husband  would always be there for me no matter what so I should always believe in everything he does for what he does is for the sake of his own family.

I've been feeling so stressed these past few days because of the major expenses we are facing in connection with our home improvement and I perhaps have thought about it too seriously that I sometimes couldn't get a good night sleep. And I think listening to what other people are telling me somehow add a bit of tension in my mind. They do have their own ideas alright but it is my husband's decision should be followed for I know full well he is aware of what he is doing. It is his own home and not theirs, he is the one who pays for the costs and not them.

Ah that little voice I should be thankful so much because if it wasn't because of that thing I wouldn't be able to just relax, take it easy... things will get better and someday when we are done with our home we can breathe easy and be thankful for our family is able to surpass it all. By then we will be proud of ourselves for together as a team , we made our home beautiful.

What Is A Normal Sleeping Arrangement?

Two nights we have been sleeping at Jadyn's bedroom because I want to give my betterhalf his much needed sleep. Thursday night he complained about not being able to sleep very well and it is making him old very fast. He is a light sleeper and every single noise or sound I make from getting up to attend the baby at night time wakes him up.

So one has to make the sacrifice and that would be me. Alright, I get him and I willingly give the whole bedroom and the whole bed to him so that he can get all the sleep he needs. When we slept at the other bedroom for the first night he asked me why do I have to do that? He wanted me to sleep in our bedroom because he wants us to be NORMAL? Heck!

We are normal at least that is how I feel. I just want to do him a big favor and even if this is going to be our "NORMAL" sleeping arrangement (me and baby sleep in other bedroom) forever, I would do that! I know full well how important it is to get a really good night sleep every night. I don't worry myself not getting some sleep at night because I don't work and I can take a nap anytime I want or if the baby allows me to.

Online Tasks

I just finished doing some of my online tasks from other blogging site and here comes another three more tasks from the other. How I wish I could stay long online but my eyes and body aren't cooperating. I can't do such a good job if I continue doing my tasks and my eyes are about to fall off. Arggsss.. I guess I won't be able to do these tasks until tonight for when I wake up after taking a nap I wanna be busy in the kitchen to prepare at least two dishes for my husband's birthday.

These recipes aren't just my everyday recipe so that means I need a couple hours to make them. These are the least things I could do for my husband's special day. This way, he would feel that I just don't ignore his birthday and that I care about him. Hopefully the foods will turn out great for I plan of making plenty of them enough for one week so he doesn't have to cook his dinner every night when arriving home from work.

Online Tasks

I just finished doing some of my online tasks from other blogging site and here comes another three more tasks from the other. How I wish I could stay long online but my eyes and body aren't cooperating. I can't do such a good job if I continue doing my tasks and my eyes are about to fall off. Arggsss.. I guess I won't be able to do these tasks until tonight for when I wake up after taking a nap I wanna be busy in the kitchen to prepare at least two dishes for my husband's birthday.

These recipes aren't just my everyday recipe so that means I need a couple hours to make them. These are the least things I could do for my husband's special day. This way, he would feel that I just don't ignore his birthday and that I care about him. Hopefully the foods will turn out great for I plan of making plenty of them enough for one week so he doesn't have to cook his dinner every night when arriving home from work.

Typical Weekend During Summer

What could be better if you have your own place to chill, relax and be comfortable than our backyard? The scenario on the right is what our typical weekend during is all about, that is of course when the husband is not busy doing manly stuff around the house.

It's our way of spending weekends, baby in the pool, husband sipping a cold beer or two while grilling some meat and potato and me just watching them. Oh boy, what a joy! It's priceless seeing my family living a simple life yet happy and contented.

Typical Weekend During Summer

What could be better if you have your own place to chill, relax and be comfortable than our backyard? The scenario on the right is what our typical weekend during is all about, that is of course when the husband is not busy doing manly stuff around the house.

It's our way of spending weekends, baby in the pool, husband sipping a cold beer or two while grilling some meat and potato and me just watching them. Oh boy, what a joy! It's priceless seeing my family living a simple life yet happy and contented.

Early Day And Overtime

I was already informed by my husband last night that he had court first thing in the morning. As soon as he hit the bed, he went to dreamland right away. When I woke up this morning I didn't see him. He already left and it felt weird for I normally find him in the computer room reading his news upon getting up in the morning.

After court I actually expected him to come home to grab his work stuff and such but guess he brought them with him upon going to court for he did not drop by today. Then just minutes ago a text sent by him telling me that he is stuck and that he would be late for hours with all probability dealing with something at work.

Honestly, it struck me. While I am living a good life at home (although I am looking after the baby and doing some house chores) while he is out there chasing after bad guys, working hard to bring in money, I feel like I am of no help here at all. If only I can also help with our financial expenses then I wouldn't be wary right now.

Early Day And Overtime

I was already informed by my husband last night that he had court first thing in the morning. As soon as he hit the bed, he went to dreamland right away. When I woke up this morning I didn't see him. He already left and it felt weird for I normally find him in the computer room reading his news upon getting up in the morning.

After court I actually expected him to come home to grab his work stuff and such but guess he brought them with him upon going to court for he did not drop by today. Then just minutes ago a text sent by him telling me that he is stuck and that he would be late for hours with all probability dealing with something at work.

Honestly, it struck me. While I am living a good life at home (although I am looking after the baby and doing some house chores) while he is out there chasing after bad guys, working hard to bring in money, I feel like I am of no help here at all. If only I can also help with our financial expenses then I wouldn't be wary right now.

Cost Cutting Measure

The husband told me a very important change of schedule at his job when he came home from work last night. I really thought it was a serious bad news because of the way he said it to me. He told me like this "well I received a bad news when I went to work this morning....." and I exclaimed! I hate to hear the word bad, yah know?

Well, the city would have to do the cost cutting measures just so they can continue pay the city employees the right salary they deserve, they can only do this by eliminating the 10-8 shift which is the current schedule of my dear husband. He has two choices though once the new schedules will be implemented, either he works very early morning or night shift.

NO doubt what I want for him to work and so does he, there was no long discussions made last night as we both agreed right away that he needs to work very early in the morning and comes home at 4 in the afternoon. Of course, I don't want to be sleeping alone in bed during night time yah know?

Cost Cutting Measure

The husband told me a very important change of schedule at his job when he came home from work last night. I really thought it was a serious bad news because of the way he said it to me. He told me like this "well I received a bad news when I went to work this morning....." and I exclaimed! I hate to hear the word bad, yah know?

Well, the city would have to do the cost cutting measures just so they can continue pay the city employees the right salary they deserve, they can only do this by eliminating the 10-8 shift which is the current schedule of my dear husband. He has two choices though once the new schedules will be implemented, either he works very early morning or night shift.

NO doubt what I want for him to work and so does he, there was no long discussions made last night as we both agreed right away that he needs to work very early in the morning and comes home at 4 in the afternoon. Of course, I don't want to be sleeping alone in bed during night time yah know?

I Did Not Marry An Idiot

American jokes are truly dry that everytime my husband jokes with me I don't get it. For me every word he says is SERIOUS and true. The other day he installed a new toilet in Jadyn's bathroom. He find it difficult installing it for it is a different model than what he had installed already in the master bath. Anyways, so he did the job and successfully did it. In fact, he used it right away to test if there is no leaking in the tank to the toilet.

After the testing, he came to me and said "I tried using the toilet and when I flushed, there was leaking in each side and the water just came out from each side of the tank!". And I said, come on, you are not serious. You're kidding me,Lalabs? And he replied No, I'm serious. Then he asked, you did not marry an idiot, did you? You think I'm an idiot? And I said OF COURSE NOT!

The reason he asked that because he thinks I believe that his job is a mess while in fact it's not. The toilet bowl was installed properly! Smart man. That's what I like about my Sandy because, he's a professional, a gentleman and truly a handy man. He does man things around the house that saves us money for not hiring someone to do the job for us.

I Did Not Marry An Idiot

American jokes are truly dry that everytime my husband jokes with me I don't get it. For me every word he says is SERIOUS and true. The other day he installed a new toilet in Jadyn's bathroom. He find it difficult installing it for it is a different model than what he had installed already in the master bath. Anyways, so he did the job and successfully did it. In fact, he used it right away to test if there is no leaking in the tank to the toilet.

After the testing, he came to me and said "I tried using the toilet and when I flushed, there was leaking in each side and the water just came out from each side of the tank!". And I said, come on, you are not serious. You're kidding me,Lalabs? And he replied No, I'm serious. Then he asked, you did not marry an idiot, did you? You think I'm an idiot? And I said OF COURSE NOT!

The reason he asked that because he thinks I believe that his job is a mess while in fact it's not. The toilet bowl was installed properly! Smart man. That's what I like about my Sandy because, he's a professional, a gentleman and truly a handy man. He does man things around the house that saves us money for not hiring someone to do the job for us.

The Longest Delay Ever

When I was still single I didn't pay much attention as to my red periods gonna come or not, I didn't know the significance of being visited by red tides each month until I got married. I'm a woman who experiences very seldom delays in periods ok? After I finish all 28 tablets in my birth control pills I always expect that first red day comes after 2 or three days after the last pill.

But in my case this time, it took my period to come for one week. I was beginning to get worried for I'm taking low dose pills and with this said there is a chance that I could get pregnant. It is the same pill that my OBGYN gave me after I had my Jadyn and she never changed it nor my second OB. One week of waiting for my period is like waiting for someone to come and chose not to meet me so I was there left hanging in the dark.

I felt so relieved now that I see some redness in my liner and I said, thank You God, You are sooooooo good. You never failed me even though I am a sinner. Thankful and very happy Sunday for me and my husband here hehe.

The Longest Delay Ever

When I was still single I didn't pay much attention as to my red periods gonna come or not, I didn't know the significance of being visited by red tides each month until I got married. I'm a woman who experiences very seldom delays in periods ok? After I finish all 28 tablets in my birth control pills I always expect that first red day comes after 2 or three days after the last pill.

But in my case this time, it took my period to come for one week. I was beginning to get worried for I'm taking low dose pills and with this said there is a chance that I could get pregnant. It is the same pill that my OBGYN gave me after I had my Jadyn and she never changed it nor my second OB. One week of waiting for my period is like waiting for someone to come and chose not to meet me so I was there left hanging in the dark.

I felt so relieved now that I see some redness in my liner and I said, thank You God, You are sooooooo good. You never failed me even though I am a sinner. Thankful and very happy Sunday for me and my husband here hehe.